What is Prayer?

People are sometimes uncomfortable with prayer because they believe it to be a religious practice tied to an official religion. They often think that there is a specific way they have to pray that they may have learned growing up that makes them uncomfortable.

Increasingly people say they are “spiritual not religious” and by that they mean they are not following the practices or dogma of an organized religion that tells them what they have to believe. In fact, 75% of millennials describe themselves in this way. A huge shift is taking place.

We recognize the divine in our lives. We sense the presence of a Higher Power and we value our connection to it. And we want to experience the divine directly.We don’t want to depend on an intermediary. We want to feel the connection. Many of us have experienced moments when we experience the divine. Maybe it was in a yoga class, through meditation, drugs or flow experiences - but we want to be able to have this experience in our daily lives and to be able to sustain this state as a way of being.

And yet to many people, including those who are spiritual, prayer seems complicated and difficult. They feel constrained by the forms of prayer they may have heard as a child and that there is “a right way” to pray.

If you have struggled with prayer and feel that “it’s hard to pray” or that you “just aren’t good at it”, I know how you feel. I grew up in a Christian household where I was taught specific prayers. When I became a practitioner I learned a new way of praying called “Spiritual Mind Treatment.” This is a very powerful and beautiful form of prayer. I loved using it and praying for people. However after many years, I found myself going through a spiritual crisis. When I prayed for myself, my treatments felt hollow, prayer became hard and eventually, I could no longer pray for myself.

One day I felt so angry and frustrated at life that I started speaking to God expressing just how I felt without try to fit my language and thoughts into any kind of structure. I told God, I was pissed off. I had worked so hard and tried to do everything to live a good life and nothing was working. For the first time I was talking to God like a real person. I was talking my best friend who I looked to for guidance and support and she had let me down instead of a supreme being on top of a mountain somewhere.

In that moment, I realized that I was finally praying in a way that allowed me to deepen my connection and develop a personal one on one connection with God.

Prayer isn’t complicated. It’s simply talking to your Higher Power or God. Prayer is our direct connection – a person-to-person call. It’s like talking to your best friend who is always there for you – a beloved parent or best friend - who doesn’t judge, condemn or find you wanting. Instead they love you unconditionally and can see the truth of who you are whatever the circumstances.

“Prayer is a personal expression that connects us to the divine. It connects us to the Creative Power at the center of the Universe, the Infinite Source of all life.”

When we pray, no matter how we pray, we tap into something mysterious and profound. We acknowledge the presence of something bigger and more powerful than ourselves. We open ourselves up to its power to transform – to open our hearts, to create a change of perspective where we see things we have been unable or unwilling to see before, a willingness to listen, to let go, to forgive. We become receptive to possibilities and solutions we had not seen before.

When we pray to our Higher Power we are admitting we can’t do life all by ourselves. We acknowledge that we need help and that opens us up for something more than we can see and imagine from our limited perspective.

Through prayer, we are making a request to the Universe to see through the perspective of our Higher Power. We are saying we are willing to ALLOW that to happen.

Imagine you are flying on a plane during a storm. The plane is rattling and shaking and you feel the turbulence. All you can see and hear is rain, thunder and lightening. You are filled with fear that you are going to die. You begin to pray. You turn it over and ask a power greater than yourself to intervene and save you.

From your vantage point, all you can see is the storm around you. But there is another perspective. If the plane could rise above the storm clouds below, you would see clouds and infinite skies all around you. At that higher vantage point, it’s a smooth ride.

In the plane, flying through the storm, you can’t see the clouds and infinite skies above. Prayer is a higher perspective vibration. It’s about being willing to let go of your limited perspective and open yourself up to that Higher Power perspective. Prayer is recognition of a power and presence in your life that is greater than you that can transform your life.

Prayer is also an act of faith. Some part of you has faith that there is an answer, a solution, a way out. Prayer isn’t the work of the mind. It’s the work of the heart. It doesn’t matter how you pray, what matters is the feeling behind the words you say. There is no wrong or right way to pray. If you come from the heart, you can’t go wrong.

What is Spiritual Counseling?

A Spiritual Counselor offers counseling/therapy sessions similar to a traditional therapist using compassionate listening and prayer as avenues for healing, guiding you towards self-love, compassion and forgiveness.

It is not associated with any given religion and all faiths are welcome.

How A Spiritual Counseling Session Works

We start the session with prayer recognizing the infinite Power and Presence that is guiding both of us.

Together we set a strong intention for healing, clarity and expansion.

When you are ready, you talk about whatever is on your mind and your heart until you are complete.

I listen and provide a safe space where you can be heard. I listen to you with an open heart.

When you are finished, I offer you feedback about what I have heard and together we explore the situation.

My intention is to always know the truth about who you are regardless of circumstances, and the “story” you may believe about yourself.

We focus on the situation you are experiencing and the changes that you desire for your life – perhaps in your finances, career, relationships, health, life purpose, creativity or spiritual development.

I support you in identifying the root causes of the conditions you are experiencing and help you discover what’s needed emotionally and mentally for you to live the life you desire.

I help you to release the limiting beliefs and mental patterns that keep you stuck in your present conditions.

I believe that the answers you are seeking are within you and that you know best what is right for you.

I support you by creating a field where you are able to tap into your divine guidance and discover the answer, solution or change in perspective needed to address whatever condition you are experiencing.

I may suggest a practice or a book or some other tool that will empower your healing.

We close the session in prayer.

In your Counseling Session, we will:

  • Clear negative habits and self-sabotaging behaviors
  • Identify and dissolve the limiting beliefs and thought patterns that hold you back
  • Heal false beliefs and align with Truth
  • Connect with your Divine Guidance
  • Connect with your personal Guides and Angels
  • Activate deep healing at a soul level
  • Let go of fear and open the pathway to freedom
  • Release resentment, blame, shame and guilt
  • Embrace compassion, self-love and forgiveness
  • Release unworthiness
  • Embrace your divine birthright

Some of the benefits you will experience:

Profound shifts in your mental and emotional states:

  • Release from fear, worry and anxiety
  • Greater peace of mind
  • Reduced stress, improved health
  • Greater clarity and confidence to make clear decisions
  • Trust in your divine guidance
  • A deeper sense of purpose
  • Confidence to take action
  • Greater freedom in mind and heart
  • Greater sense of your personal power
  • Greater awareness and ability to be present
  • Greater resilience and ability to go with the flow
  • Activation of your full potential

Which will result in new outcomes in your daily life

  • Greater abundance
  • Improved relationships
  • Enhanced creativity
  • Greater ability to feel joy, aliveness & more energy
  • The ability to see new possibilities
  • More opportunities
  • Better health
  • More miracles in your daily life!

To schedule a Spiritual Counseling session with Adoley

It is a privilege and a joy to pray with you. Spiritual Counseling Sessions provide a profoundly transformative process for both of us. When I pray for you, I also experience the benefits.

I provide an introductory session because I know many of you are new to the experience of spiritual counseling, and I want as many people as possible to experience the benefits.However I do not generally see clients on a one-off basis other than in exceptional cases due to time constraints.

I also have discovered with my clients that true spiritual growth and meaningful change in your life happens over time.


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