When I left my company, Synergy Unlimited, in 2006, I had no idea it would be such a long hiatus. My health was failing and I planned a trip to my homeland, Ghana.
Well, I never made it. I was simply too ill. Instead, I went to Ghana in my imagination. I’m writing a book about my relationship to my homeland. I’ve been on a journey but nothing like the one I planned.
For the past two years, I’ve been on a “health journey.” In the six months before I was forced to stop working, I was exhausted physically but continued to push myself. My partner, Deborah, was a race horse and I was a lumbering workhorse beside her.
I tried to keep up but it became harder and harder. I developed ulcers all over my body and scabs formed over them in thick layers. Every orifice I had was filled with ulcers. I bled from my mouth, my eyes, my lips…. you get the idea! I looked awful and felt worse. I went to doctor after doctor who had no idea what was wrong with me. I was a speaker and my mouth was covered in bleeding ulcers.
My subject was health and well-being and my face and body was covered in sores. I could hardly walk and had no energy. Clearly, this medium was not the message. I finally had to quit and focus on my health or lack of it.
At last, I received a diagnosis: a rare auto-immune disease called Behcets Syndrome. It was incurable, they said, but it could go into remission. I promised myself that it would. I knew my body had the power to heal itself. I needed to create the conditions to support it to do so.
At first, I tried to hang on to semblances of my former life. I struggled against the restrictions my illness was imposing on me. Hadn’t I been through enough? I became allergic to most foods. It was hard to walk, I had no energy.The illness seemed to be taking everything away from me – my career, my looks, my health, my youth, my beauty, my energy, my vitality, my sex life and ultimately my voice. I was a professional speaker, yet I lost my voice for almost five months.
Eventually after much resistance, I surrendered as Eckhart Tolle recommends to “what is.” I accepted the situation rather than struggling against it. I connected with a wonderful chiropractor, Lorri Beaver, who taught me to listen to and trust the messages my body was giving me.
Instead of complaining about each new affliction or condition, I began to ask myself, “What are the thoughts and beliefs that are behind my illness?” “What is the spiritual condition that it is masking?”
As I got more involved in this inquiry, my relationship with my body began to change. I discovered that I was disconnected from my body much of the time. As a child I daydreamed constantly. Often, reality was a place to escape from. I had a hard time staying connected to my body. If someone asked me how I felt about an experience, I’d talk about what I thought not what I felt.
The truth was I often didn’t know how I felt. It was a long time before my feelings became apparent. Often, I’d be in pain but wasn’t aware of it. Even if I was, I would suffer for months before going to the doctor. Now I discovered my body is a finely calibrated instrument.
As soon as I put a piece of food in my body that isn’t healthy, it “tells” me. If I’m around someone who has negative energy, it reacts by closing down. When I allow a negative thought to dominate my mind, my body weakens. I literally feel it losing energy. I ’ve learned to listen to my body and understand its communications even when I don’t want to listen. My body tells me when I ‘m out of touch with myself. It tells me when I’m not connected to Source, to Spirit or God.
My Body is a Compass that Trues Me to Myself.
As I’ve learned to listen to my body’s rhythms and messages, I’ve reclaimed large parts of myself. I’ve re-ordered my priorities. I’m kinder now, more attentive and gentler to myself and my body. I thought my illness was an affliction, taking me “off track” and bringing all kinds of misery into my life. It was certainly uncomfortable and frightening but I’ve discovered that what I thought was my sickness was actually my cure.
My body told me that I was seriously disconnected from myself. I now realize what an amazing instrument and guide my body is. It is an infallible compass that trues me to myself. It’s always talking to me – and now, gratefully, I’m finally listening.
In our modern life, many of us are disconnected from our bodies. I have clients who constantly deprive themselves of sleep. They refuse to stop working round the clock.They race from place to place – all of the behaviors of adrenaline addiction – and refuse to listen to the signals their bodies are sending.
When I counsel weight loss clients, I notice what negative relationships many of them have with their body. They see their body as ugly and unwieldy, an alien thing that they hate. They are just as disconnected from their body as I was. It isn’t until they accept their body as it is, that they can listen to the messages it is sending. As they focus on creating a healthy body, rather than losing weight, they make life changes that bring them the sense of well-being they’ve been seeking. Then they lose weight.
Recently, Stacy, a client of mine who was approaching her 30th birthday acknowledged to her surprise that she felt a profound sense of well-being and confidence. “I came to lose 30 pounds and get in the best shape ever.” She said. “Well, I haven’t gotten there yet, but I’m the best version of myself so far. I think that’s a much bigger accomplishment.”
What is Your Body Trying to Tell You? Are you willing to listen to it? Do you ignore your body when it tells you it needs sleep and power through your fatigue by drinking cups of coffee? Do you feel your body tensing up or aching after you’ve spent time with certain people? How often do you have headaches and body pains after spending time in certain environments? Do you find yourself sighing a lot? Sighing is called “air hunger.” It’s a communication from your soul of profound dissatisfaction, telling you that your deepest needs aren’t being heard or acknowledged. All these are communications from your body telling you something important. Your body is speaking to you constantly. Are you listening? What beliefs and thoughts do you have that are holding you back? Do you stay in negative environments and relationships despite what your body is telling you? How willing are you to listen to the signals your body is sending and to make the necessary changes?
For too many of us, it is only when our bodies breakdown that we are forced to listen. Don’t Wait Until You Get Sick!
Learning to understand my body has been a gift. I can truly thank God for my sickness. It truly was my cure. It has led me on a journey of discovery; a journey back to myself. But you don’t need to wait until you get sick. You can begin this journey today by taking three simple steps to listen to your body on a daily basis.
1. Listen to the signals your body is sending you.
2. Act upon them.
3. Seek medical advice or talk to knowledgeable friends and healers
4. Don’t cover up the problem with short term solutions.
5. Listen to your body’s wisdom. It is speaking to you.
I read an article this week in the paper about Brian Williams the anchor and news director of NBC Nightly News. He’d had the “brilliant idea” to include some good news in his broadcast and solicited viewers for stories.
Apparently they were astonished at the number of emails and submissions they received. They were planning to include some of these stories but were concerned that the stories might become “cloying”. What is amazing to me is that the folk at NBC are so disconnected from their audience that they don’t know that we are sick to death of the deluge of bad news that now constitutes the news.
But perhaps it isn’t amazing. Having worked in television, I know how easy it is to become insulated in a self-referential world and lose touch with what’s going on around you. The news has become a never-ending catalogue of deaths, accidents, disasters, crimes and aberrant behavior. It is crying for a paradigm shift.
What if the news actually made you think? What if you looked forward to it because it took you places you didn’t expect? What if it covered stories that stirred your emotions that made you cry, that made yoiu mad, that really made you think fresh thoughts? What if the news wasn’t so bloody predictable?
That’s where we come in. Time to stop complaining and actually do something about it. We have to find a way to get our voices out there. Hidden In Plain Sight is a start.
Last night sitting in my living room with my white husband on my red couch, life changed forever. Barack Hussein Obama, became President Elect of the United States and will be our 44th President.
It was one of those moments when you know that down the line, when people ask you about that day, you will remember where you were, who you were with and how you felt and the tears streaming down your face. I am so grateful that I am alive at this time. A time when watershed moments have taken place and my perception of what’s possible has changed.
In my lifetime I have seen things that seemed impossible to change, change. Apartheid end in South Africa; the Berlin Wall come down, and Oprah Winfrey, a black woman become the richest and most influential woman in America. One of my teachers, famous medium, Hans Christian King, said the other day that there is no world hunger, there is a refusal to share the resources we have. We don’t have a hunger problem, we have a perception problem.
Well, last night, the glass ceiling that has always existed over me finally shattered. The first crack in it came the day I read in Time magazine that Oprah Winfrey was worth $400 million. She was on the cover of the magazine. She was everywhere. Her influence was undeniable. She was a tastemaker, she shaped public opinion. She could make and unmake careers. And she was worth $400 million. I was shocked. I never knew until then how limited my perspective was.
I was a black woman, the same age as Oprah, I had many of the same gifts, but I realized, I had never thought it possible that a black woman could achieve what she had achieved. I had been operating out of lack and limitation. For the first time, I realized how low a bar I had set for myself because I didn’t believe it was possible for me.
As a spiritual practitioner of new thought, I often say “In God all things are possible.” but the truth is there are certain things I just didn’t believe were possible. A year ago I didn’t believe that a black man could become President of the United States. In fact, I didn’t believe it was possible till two months ago. And then last night it actually happened and this morning I realized for me, for the first time in my life, I finally believe that for me, for my nieces and nephews and all people of color that all things are possible. Not some things, all things.
I don’t just believe it. I know it. As Oprah says, this is now one of the things “I know for sure.” The glass ceiling finally shattered. Whether you are a Democrat or Republican, black or white, last night, we all experienced a perception shift with Barack’s election. Something we had not thought was possible happened. What if Hans Christian King is right?
What if our economic crisis, our health crisis, our education crisis are also perception problems? As JFK said (quoting George Bernard Shaw): “There are those that look at things the way they are, and ask why? I dream of things that never were, and ask why not?”
Thank you, Barack, for the courage to stay the course and shatter the glass ceiling. Today, we can say with absolute conviction, “in God, all things are possible.”
Morgana talked about the financial alchemy of transforming
your relationship with money. During the course of the call,
she described how to identify your “Money Monster”
and and why it was important to terminate this unhealthy
relationship and to create a new relationship with money that
she calls your “Money Honey”. Here is some of what
she had to say:
1. Most people have a Money Monster, whether they realize
it or not and if you need a clue, it will be similar to many
other relationships in your life. If you feel like you do
all the work in a relationship and don’t get much back,
or if you feel like you are neglected in your relationship,
chances are, this dynamic also plays out in some way in your
relationship and views with money.
2. In order to transform your relationship with money, you
have to create a dynamic and relationship that you actually
want to engage with. Morgana calls this your Money Honey, and
she encourages you to design the image of a a sexy romantic partner
who is in love with you, never wants to leave you, only wants
to give to you, and create a NEW relationship with money.
3. You must engage with your Money Honey. Once you
have formed this relationship, she encourages you to
interact with it, asking IT what it wants from you. She
says it will always respond to you, and you will be able
to decipher it’s response by the way you feel. It will always
speak to you for your highest good.
I encourage you to listen to the call for her indepth
explanation. It was a fresh perspective and you will
know if it resonates for you.
For more information on Morgana, go to:
www.abundanceandprosperity.com
To find out about her live event happening
in New York May 31st, go to:
http://www.secretofamoneymagnet.com/NYC/
If you missed this amazing call, you can hear it live
over the next 24 hours by clicking here
http://budurl.com/freereplay
You can also read a recap of the call on my blog tomorrow,
by clicking http://budurl.com/adoleysblog
If you’d like to purchase the entire series so you can listen
to these valuable speakers at your convenience and catch the
nuances and life-changing ideas that are so easy to miss at a
first pass- Just go to http://budurl.com/financial
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If anyone is struggling or is moving through an especially
challenging time and would like to be supported with
prayer, I would love to support you.
Please send me an email: adoley@adoley.com to
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Morgana Rae’s Special Offer
Morgana Rae offered her entire library of
Financial Alchemy products, valued at over
$800 at a discounted rate of $297.00
To take advantage of her offer, please
visit her site: http://budurl.com/morganarae
Who knew that Feng Shui was such a specific
science based on highly mathematical formulas?
And that it accounted for 33% of our luck?
Tonight, Marie Diamond filled us in on the
science of environment.
Here are a few things she had to say:
1. The laws of the universe are playing out in three
ways: Spiritual, Human and Environmental, each
consisting of 33%.
2. Each environment, like each person, has the law of
attraction at work. When you “activate” your
environment using feng shui, you are tapping into
33% more law of attraction energy and things can
shift within between 9 days and 9 weeks.
3.Just an interesting bit of name dropping: Both
Donald Trump and the Dalai Lama consult a Grand Feng
Shui Master before making major decisions. This
is the guy who taught Marie everything she knows.
4. Changing our thoughts and beliefs can be a difficult process. Feng Shui is an energy system. When you work
in conjunction with it and make changes in your outer
environment, it triggers inner changes – in how you
feel, think and respond and can make moving forward
much easier.
If you missed this amazing call, you can hear it
live over the next 24 hours by clicking here
http://budurl.com/freereplay
You can also read a recap of the call on my
blog tomorrow, by clicking
http://budurl.com/adoleysblog
If you’d like to purchase the entire series at a
great price, so you can listen to these valuable
speakers at your convenience and be able to
replay them and catch the nuances and
life-changing ideas that are so easy to miss at a
first pass- Just go to
http://budurl.com/financial
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My Special Offer to You, the Caller
If anyone is struggling or is moving through an
especially challenging time and would like to be
supported with prayer, I would love to support
you.
Please send me an email: adoley@adoley.com to
schedule a 15 minute session.
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Marie Diamond’s Special Offer
Marie is offering two audio seminars, her Diamond
Feng Shui Essentials Audio Seminar and her
Diamond Feng Shui for Health Audio Seminar.
Normally packaged together at $186.00, she is
offering it to our listeners at a special
discount rate of $148.00 for both seminars. And
with this, you get five extra special bonuses.
To find out more about this special offer, go to:
http://budurl.com/mariediamond
If you have questions for Marie or want a
recommendation for a practitioner in your area,
you can email her at info@mariediamond.com
According to Succeed Magazine, Dr. Joe Vitale is one of
the five top marketing specialists in the world today and is
known to his readers, customers, and seminar attendees
as the world’s first hypnotic writer. Joe is also a certified
hypnotherapist, a certified metaphysical practitioner, a
certified Chi Kung healer, and an ordained minister. He
also holds a doctorate degree in Metaphysical Science
and another doctorate degree in Marketing. Joe is a best
selling author, “Life’s Little Instruction Manual” “The
Attractor Factor” “Expect Miracles” “The Key and “Zero
Limits” to name a few. Joe is also a well known teacher
of the Law of Attraction as featured in the movie “The
Secret” and in many other metaphysical movies. We were
so lucky that he was able to join us today!
Here is some of what he had to say:
1) The Law of Attraction is a LAW, not a feel good
principle but a LAW. It is absolute.
2) One of the most insidious beliefs that people have
about money is that “Money is the Root of all Evil”. But this is not true. The lack of money is the root of all evil. Wealthy people don’t love money. They certainly
appreciate money, but what they really value is FREEDOM.
Money is nothing but paper and coin and we PROJECT
meaning into it.
3) The secret to attracting money is to GET RID OF our
subconscious limiting and negative beliefs.
What we need to see money for what it is – a symbol of freedom and a spiritual tool to live out your life’s
purpose. 4) “Money likes speed” is one of Joe’s maxims and
so does the Universe. You have to take action on the
ideas that come to you. Your job is to be a partner
to the universe and take action on that idea. Most people
automatically go into reasons why they can’t do it (don’t
have time, will do it later, etc.) That is an example of not
being grateful for what ideas the universe is presenting
to you.
5) Where do you start? You start right where you are
now. The missing link is to take action. The word
“act” is in the law of attraction. It’s a partnership.
6) If you want to make a difference in the world, then
become wealthy! Because this is the way that you can
choose where you contribute.
7) When you begin to love yourself, the world opens up.
One of the single greatest blocks to money, is this feeling
that we don’t deserve it. This unconscious belief needs
to be addressed. If there is any lack in your life, it has
to do with some lack of unforgiveness of yourself.
So how do you get rid of the beliefs? That’s the
million dollar question and this is where his
clearing techniques are. He gave us three
techniques. In his programs and books he
details many more.
1. Become aware of the issue. Ask
yourself the question: What sorts of beliefs would
a person like me have to have in order to have the
life I have? The meaning you give an event is the
belief that attracted it. Notice the things that
come to mind. These are the unconscious
beliefs that are attracting those situations. There is
a belief that is attracting exactly what you have
in your life. Everything you have in the outer world
is a mirror of what’s in your unconscious mind.
2. Ask questions about the belief, and follow
the thread of your beliefs and the credibility you
give them. Ask the question, is that really true?
3. Another way to address it is using EFT tapping it
out of the system. see: www.moneybeyondbelief.com
Also listen to the Brad Yates call in our financial series.
http://budurl.com/financial
4) If you have a re-occuring problem, it is a problem
seeking resolution; an old belief seeking a release.
If you missed this amazing call, you can hear it live over the next 24 hours by clicking here http://budurl.com/freereplay
You can also read a recap of the call on my blog tomorrow,
by clicking http://budurl.com/adoleysblog
If you’d like to purchase the entire series so you can listen
to these valuable speakers at your convenience and catch the nuances and life-changing ideas that are so easy to miss at a first pass- Just go to http://budurl.com/financial
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My Special Offer to You, the Caller
If anyone is struggling or is moving through an especially
challenging time and would like to be supported with
prayer, I would love to support you.
Please send me an email: adoley@adoley.com to
schedule a 15 minute session. ==============================================
Joe Vitale’s Special Offer
Joe spoke about clearing the false beliefs as the number one priority to get what you want. His program is the audio
program: The Secret to Attracting Money:
www.secrettoattractingmoney.com
Joe also talked about his Attract Miracles Project, where he is
committed to planetary transformation. It is based on a series of
23 scientific studies that show that when 8,185 people focus their
intention on the same goal, change occurs. He gave the example
of a peace project which was the source of a scientific study for
over a decade in which a community focused on peace and it resulted
in a a series of major peace initiatives in the world including the War
in Afghanistan and the ending of the Cold War.
Joe is creating an entire community devoted to global change and
invites you to become part of this community. You can also
accelerate your own change by getting the community’s support
behind your intentions. Read more about the scientific truth behind
his intentional transformation! The Attract Miracles Community
can be found at: http://budurl.com/4miracles
Joe also talked about his FREE BOOK, “Attract Money Now”
that he is going to give to our listeners. Please sign up to receive
the free copy of his new book, www.attractmoneynow.com
and you will get a copy once it is complete! (He mentioned
within the next 45 days!)
Tonight Brad introduced us to Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
and gave us a mini session clearing our issues on abundance. I
found it simply fabulous, and from the emails I’ve been getting,
I see it was very helpful to many of our listeners who also
reported feeling a shift! If you’d like to have your own
experience, listen to the REPLAY. And make sure you have his
website in front of you that gives you a special diagram of the
tapping points he covers. Just go to: http://budurl.com/bradyates – and click on his tab “About EFT”.
In addition, here is what Brad had to say about EFT!
1. EFT can be considered Acupuncture for the emotions. It works
along the same meridian lines, and acts as a clearing of blocks
in the energy field. Brad likens it to “dental floss” but calls
it “mental floss”. We use dental floss to remove the gunk
between our teeth. He says EFT can be mental floss to clear the
gunk out of our thoughts. But like dental floss, mental floss
(i.e. EFT) is only useful at clearing the gunk when you use it.
2. To the extent to which we are not experiencing what we say we
want in our life, is the extent to which we are resisting it.
EFT works with resistant and can help clear limiting beliefs and
feelings.
3.Our behavior is run by our conscious mind only 10-12% of the
time, which means that the other 88-90% is controlled by our
subconscious or unconscious mind. EFT is very effective in
addressing and neutralizing these unconscious beliefs.
4. Regarding law of attraction and EFT? If we want to attract
something into our life, we want to feel good about it. If we’re
not feeling good about it, we will want to release the
resistance. EFT is a perfect way of doing this.
5. One last thing that I found very helpful. Brad answered a
question from one of our listeners, and his answer was profound:
Self-Sabatoge, he said, is a misguided attempt at self-love. EFT
is a way to clear this.
To learn more about Brad Yates, go to
http://budurl.com/bradyates
If you missed this amazing call, you can hear it live over the
next 24 hours by clicking here http://budurl.com/freereplay
Please note that this is the exact same link for each and every
speaker simply refresh the link in order to hear the next
speaker. (Only those who have purchased will be able to download
the rest of the speakers). [NOTE: Sometimes the cache in your
browser needs to be cleared in order to hear it.] You can also
read a recap of the call on my blog tomorrow, by clicking
http://budurl.com/adoleysblog
If you’d like to purchase the entire series at a great price, so
you can listen to these valuable speakers at your convenience
and be able to replay them and catch the nuances and
life-changing ideas that are so easy to miss at a first pass-
Just go to
http://budurl.com/financial
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My Special Offer to You, the Caller
Due to these challenging times and from what I am hearing from
some of you, I decided to stay on the line for at least half an
hour after the call on Monday for anyone who wants to talk via
email or webcast to answer questions, offer coaching or support.
Also if anyone is struggling or is moving through an especially
challenging time and would like to be supported with prayer, I
would love to support you.
Please send me an email: adoley@adoley.com to schedule a 15
minute session.
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Brad Yates Special Offer: Master Key to Success
As a special bonus to our listener, Brad offered his Master Key
to Success product which include a series of pre-recorded
tapping phrases that you can follow along with (much like we did
on the call). Normally priced for $97.00 he is offering it at a
25% discount at $72.75.
But you MUST follow these instructions, because Brad, with his
fun sense of humor, placed the code in a place where you need to
find it. But he made it “Hidden in Plain Sight” just like the
title of our series!
To take advantage, follow these directions:
1) Go to http://budurl.com/bradyates
2) Click on the “Products Page”
3)You can click on “Master Key” to read about the product
4) But to take advantage of the price, you must go BACK to the main PRODUCTS page, (it will not be on the Master Key product
description page)
5) Scroll ALL THE WAY to the bottom, past the links at the bottom and in the lower left hand corner, in tiny
(tiny) letters, you’ll see “HIPS” (in the blue border).
6) When you are ready to buy at the discounted price, click here and it will take you to the shopping cart with the $72.75 discounted price!
Whew! Those were some instructions!
In any case you will not be disappointed. Once you listen to Brad on the Replay, you will want more. And he’s made it available to our listeners, so take advantage!
Estate and Trust Attorney Wynne Whitman, author of
“Smart Women Protect Their Assets: Essential
Information for Every Woman About Wills, Trusts, and
More” laid it on the line for our listeners about the need for
estate planning this evening and here is some of what
she had to say:
1. Although most people want to avoid dealing with the subject
of death or incapacity, they feel relief when they finally put their financial affairs in order. Doing this ensures their wishes are carried out.
2. If you are a woman who has a minor child /children, it is
IMPERATIVE that you have a WILL in order, to determine
who will raise your children in the event of something
happening to you. It’s an important decision to be made
but better left in your hands than to a courts to decide.
3. A WILL only takes effect when you
pass away. A TRUST is a separate entity that holds assets
for the benefits of yourself in this life, or for another person
in the event that you pass away (i.e. generous grandparents
who may be protecting money for their grandchildren for
their college). A LIVING WILL is a document
that outlines your wishes at the end of your life. It only
takes effect at the end of your life. This is where you would
put the information about decisions of life support, etc.
4. Wynne recommended five documents to create your
estate.
1. A Will
2. A Trust
3. A Power of Attorney (makes financial decisions on your behalf )
4. Health CareProxy ( makes medical decision on your behalf ).
5. A Living Will
And much, much more. Listen to the replay and take notes!
We highly encourage you to get a copy of Wynne Whitman’s book,
Smart Women Protect Their Assets. We carry it in our bookstore.
You can purchase a copy of it by clicking here:
http://budurl.com/protectassets
If you missed this amazing call, you can hear it live over the
next 24 hours by clicking here http://budurl.com/freereplay
You can also read a recap of the call on my blog tomorrow, by
clicking http://budurl.com/adoleysblog
If you’d like to purchase the entire series so you can listen to
these valuable speakers at your convenience and catch the
nuances and life-changing ideas that are so easy to miss at a
first pass- Just go to http://budurl.com/financial
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My Special Offer to You, the Caller
If anyone is struggling or is moving through an especially
challenging time and would like to be supported with prayer, I
would love to support you.
Please send me an email: adoley@adoley.com to schedule a 15
minute session.
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Marie Diamond’s Special Offer Still Good
On Monday’s call, Marie is offered our listeners two audio
seminars: her Diamond Feng Shui Essentials Audio Seminar and her
Diamond Feng Shui for Health Audio Seminar. Normally packaged
together at $186.00, she offered it to our listeners at a
special discount rate of $148.00 for both seminars. Along with
five extra special bonuses.
Paul & Layne shared some very special tools tonight about how to
communicate with your partner about money. So many of our
patterns come from early conditioning, but the simple tools they
suggest, are highly doable if we commit to our own growth!
1. We are never upset for the reasons we think, so as much as we
want to blame the economy for our stress, there is something
underlying that is going on. In a relationship, it is important
to identify and communicate underlying fears without judgement,
giving the fear a chance to dissipate. This releases tension,
bonds the relationship, and creates the opening to talk about
solutions.
2. The modeling of our parents is the most important force in a
relationship. Whether we like it or not, we tend to repeat what
we saw modeled in our family. Taking personal responsibility for
how things affect you is the NUMBER ONE thing you can do to help
your relationship.
3. What we think of as a “cause” for our stress in a
relationship is usually just the “symptom”. The real issue is
usually a hidden belief that has gotten triggered by an external
circumstance. Not blaming your partner, but instead sharing some
of these underlying fears that are triggered, is a way to build
intimacy and support in a relationship.
4. The anecdote to fear and stress in a relationship is always
more love. During stressful times, it is highly critical that
you make the relationship the #1 priority, paying extra special
attention to your partner and your connection. Instead of
focusing with your partner, on how you can make more money,
focus instead on how you can be more loving. This will create a
relationship that can weather any financial storm.
On the course of the call, Paul & Layne also modeled what they
call a ‘Heart to Heart’ talk which is a very useful way to
communicate with your partner. Please listen to the replay or
take advantage of their program (and very special discount) to gain access to their 30 years of research and invaluable information!
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You can also read a recap of the call on my blog tomorrow, by
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Paul & Layne’s Special Offer
If you weren’t on the call, you missed the insightful information Paul & Layne had to share on strategies for
successful relationships. They are offering our listeners their
Relationship Breakthrough Program at a generous discount. For
the value it provides, and the content you get, this is a very
speical offer. Take advantage. They have made
their offer good through Sunday, May 2nd so that more of you can
benefit from it!
Doesn’t that sound like a breath of fresh air? Well, that’s the promise of our latest guest, financial teacher, Leo Quinn.
Leo has taught his personal financial system to over 20,000 people over the past 10 years helping them to make better decisions with their money and be debt free. Leo spoke about debt elimination, credit scores and some of the major financial mistakes people make. He was full of information that you definitely want to know and incorporate into your new financial health plan if you are in debt like millions of Americans. Leo’s call was packed with information so I’m just going to hit some of the highlights. The best thing to do is to listen to the call.
1. Leo’s system is mathematical. It works 100% of the time. If you are making payments on your loans and credit cards this plan will ensure that you are debt free within 10 years (and often far less), even if you have a mortgage, providing you do not incur more debt.
2. You don’t have to pinch pennies, go out and get a second job or give up every pleasure like eating out or go to the movies to make this plan work. However, if you choose to trim your expenses or increase your income by creating a business on the side (which is what Leo recommends rather than depriving yourself) this can accelerate the process considerably.
3. Leo’s debt elimination plan works in any country. So this applies to all of our international listeners. ——————————————————
Step 1: Make a realistic and thorough assessment of your debts.
Step 2: Enter data into Leo’s system and use his calculator to calculate how much you have to pay on each debt in order to become Debt Free. It will give you an exact date when you will be Debt Free.
Step 3: Pay off your low interest debts first. This is completely counter to what most financial advisers teach. Leo says: It’s psychology (the way you think) that got you into debt in the first place. Paying off their low interest debts, motivates people. They see themselves making progress and they are encouraged to continue.
Step 4: As your circumstances change (a promotion, an unexpected expense, a windfall) you enter the data and adjust the pay off date to reflect the new information.
Step 5: Make consistent payments, don’t incur new debt and you will inevitably reach your debt free goal.
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4. Credit Scores, Credit Reports, Bankruptcy and how to repair your credit : Leo gave a ton of information about your credit score, the site for a free credit report, how to find out your credit score and how to improve it and debt forgiveness scams to watch out for.
5. Leo told a story of a woman who was in debt, had a mortgage and was on a fixed income and disabled. She was in despair about ever getting out of debt. She took his program and within a few years is almost debt free.
For those of you who are in debt, especially, I have this to say to you, from Leo Quinn: There is HOPE and a way out and Leo can show you the way, step by step.
Leo Quinn’s Special Offer
Leo talked about his Debt Elimination Program on our show based on a mathematical formula guaranteed to work 100% of the
time if you work it. If you are in debt, with a mortgage and
credit cards, and are committed to financial freedom, this is an
offer you want to take advantage of. Leo is offering this VALUABLE
program, only for listeners of our program, at an extra special discountthru next Thursday, April 24th. To take advantage of this and read more about his program, go to http://budurl.com/leoq
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NEXT: Spencer Sherman on Monday, April 20thSpencer Sherman was named one of the top 100 Wealth Advisors in the United States by Worth Magazine in 2005 thru 2007. He is the author of the much talked about book The Cure for Money Madness: Break Your Bad Money Habits, Live Without Financial Stress – and MakeMore Money and and he will be with us live on Monday night to talk about this and more. Mark your calendar. HIS
TOPIC: “Your Mattress IsNot Your Bank: Don’t Sleep through the Recession, Invest!”
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I believe as
Wayne Dyer says, "there is a spiritual solution to every problem".
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visionaries together to provide those shifts in perception
that lead to new insights, opportunities and powerful solutions
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